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The rest of the population divides more or less equally into white and mixed-race.
Paula Quinsee, a relationship coach from Johannesburg, says Blasian couples face particular challenges. At least black and white people in relationships with each other are both likely to come from Christian families, while in Blasian relationships religion is added to other cultural barriers. And there is another factor. It's the day of the big meeting and Tumelo's mum, Modjadji, has gone all out.
She's spent the morning preparing the mopane worms, tripe and chicken's feet. She's also bought halal meat especially. There's no way she could have been allowed to bring home a man of another race she says. That would have been unheard of. She wants her children to have that freedom, though she doesn't want them to abandon their culture. And that means not compromising on eating chicken feet and tripe, or drinking alcohol, in front of people who may not be used to it.
Ithra, Rayana and her husband and Ithra's sisters arrive holding flowers and deep pans containing Asian food: biryani and tandoori chicken.
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Modjadji throws her arms around Rayana. As the families sit down to eat, Tumelo's brother recites a Christian prayer. Then the conversation resumes, and soon it turns to those not at the table - namely, Ithra's grandparents. At school, because we lived in what was known as a coloured area and there weren't a lot of blacks around us She repeats some of the things she had told me earlier, but as Rayana finishes, Tumelo picks her up on a phrase she has used. So what are the replacements? Later, Tumelo's father Phuti - a quiet man who has remained silent for most of the lunch - speaks up with advice for the Born Frees at the table.
But it was never a moment. Actually in my view things got a little bit worse than what we thought," he says. I never interacted with Indians until very late in my life, when I was working. This generation will resolve it. Every generation has its own problem.
And I think this generation, this is their problem - they'll sort it out. In a quiet moment, just before Ithra's stepdad offers to conclude lunch with a Muslim prayer, Tumelo tells me that he will visit Ithra's grandparents before the move to Cape Town. And their mums agree to fly together to see their children one weekend. And with that, two families in Joburg, on a lazy Saturday afternoon, bow their heads and close their eyes to pray, with plates of biryani sitting next to a portion of mopane worms laid out in front of them. When a health emergency prompted Nathan Romburgh and his sisters to look into their family history, decades after the end of apartheid, they uncovered a closely guarded secret that made them question their own identity.
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Grandpa Ashraf, in a wheelchair, wears a traditional Islamic thobe and cap. It wasn't their choice not to talk, they say, it was Ithra's. Keyword Search for profiles containing a particular word or phrase.
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